Toy Boy

Flirt Glossary – Toy Boy

The term “toy boy” refers to a very youthful lover of a much older woman.

Older women are usually financially and emotionally independent. You don't need a man to achieve security or status. You also want to remain largely independent in a relationship. They are not looking for someone to pay for their meals, but rather someone who will make them laugh and with whom they can enjoy life.

The men in such relationships are flattered to be desired by an experienced, attractive woman. They find it attractive that the woman is independent and successful. Young men can still learn and benefit from the experiences of an older woman.

In most cases, such a relationship is sexual - erotic experiences, fun and adventure are expressly desired. The older, financially independent woman knows that material consideration is usually expected from the younger partner. This ranges from paying your living expenses to promoting your career.

The often financial dependence of the “lust boy” enables the love-hungry lady to determine the structure of the relationship and set the tone.