Fetisch.de – BDSM contact exchange for fetish contacts and alternative dating

Fetisch.de – BDSM contact exchange for fetish contacts tested and compared

Overall impression: 4.0 out of 5.0 stars 4.0

The contact exchange Fetisch.de is a platform for people with special inclinations and preferences. Sexual interests are also in the foreground here. Fetisch.de calls itself “The community for alternative dating” .

Contact platforms for BDSM and people with a fetish have been available on the Internet for almost 20 years. So they are a little younger compared to the general dating and sex exchanges. However, Fetisch.de has been repeatedly revised and constantly improved in recent years.

Accordingly, the BDSM portal is very well attended for a niche exchange and is also very popular. Clearly a broad need is being met here. Fetisch.de continues to grow and already has more than 250,000 members (+ 70,000 members in the last 2-3 years).

Compared to an affair agency or similar sites, Fetisch.de is relatively inexpensive with a monthly subscription for around 12 euros per month. The paid premium access offers some functions and extras.

Fetisch.de recently went online in a new version and now offers a lot of news for friends of latex, fetish & BDSM . The design and layout of the contact exchange is simple but chic and catchy. It's very easy to use and you can register within 5 minutes.

New features are a BDSM personality test , an environmental radar and a revised mobile phone app .

Registration and first steps

To register on Fetisch.de, a valid email address is required. However, not all email addresses are accepted and registrations from abroad are not necessarily possible. This is to protect members from fake profiles and bots.

In addition to your email address, you are required to select a pseudonym and provide your date of birth, place of residence and your search preference . The following options are available to you: friends, erotic dates, relationships, clubs, networking, affairs, swingers, BDSM, photo exchange and cybersex.

After the short registration you will receive an access code by email and can use it to activate your account. This is followed by filling out your own profile.

Free use of Fetisch.de

Fetisch.de is basically free with basic access. However, you can only use all functions without restrictions with a premium membership. This is preferable to a free membership due to its extensive functions and contact options.

There is also a free way to get a premium membership - Fetisch.de awards points for certain actions, such as writing messages, rating pictures, and points. You can collect a maximum of 30 points per day.

For 1,500 points collected you receive a free, 14-day premium membership. This can then take over 50 days. So you have to consider whether the effort is worth it. This is definitely an option for those looking to save money.

Profiling

After successful registration, you can provide a variety of detailed information about your appearance, sexual preferences, BDSM roles and fetishes in the profile section. This allows you to leave a lasting impression and increase your chances of interesting fetish contacts and success.

Your profile information also serves as a search filter to attract people with similar interests. It is therefore advisable to fill all profile sections with relevant information in order to be discovered by potentially suitable partners.

To do this, simply select the appropriate categories (e.g. BDSM) to indicate your preferences for practices such as dominance, submission, bondage, sweet pain or spanking. Be specific about what you like, what piques your interest, and whether you want to be active or passive.

The variety of preferences and inclinations is impressive and offers something suitable for everyone. Still, it takes time to search through all categories, which not everyone is willing to do. However, if you invest the time to fully fill out your profile, we can assure you that you will receive more relevant contacts.

While we are creating our profile, we receive messages from people with similar preferences who became aware of us through our information in the search filters.

The profile can be designed individually and creatively with images, photo galleries and free texts. to share “kinky confessions” via the profile settings This means asking questions like “What was your first kinky experience?” What did you learn from it?” or “What is good sex for you? ”

These answers can optionally be shared with profile visitors and serve as conversation starters.

Particularly noteworthy when creating a profile is the specially developed BDSM personality test , which offers exciting insights into your own inclinations and preferences and thus very well supports the successful search for a partner.

Finding a partner & making contact

If you are looking for a suitable counterpart for your specific preferences at Fetisch.de, you can look forward to a granular member search . This not only allows you to search by gender, age and place of residence, but also allows you to enter special characteristics advanced search

Advanced search criteria

• Looking for: Choose between one night stand (ONS), multiple night stand (MNS), affair, relationship, photo exchange, house friend, club visit, partner exchange, cybersex or slave.
• Preferences: Here you can select the preferences of your counterpart. You can then define whether at least one or all preferences should apply.
• Relationship status: If you are specifically looking for a mutual affair, you can easily enter this in the search.
• Appearance: If you have specific ideas, you can filter by attributes such as visual aids, height, weight and many other physical details.
• Photo search: For visually oriented users who have premium access, it is possible to use photo search or watch live streams of interesting members and interact with them.

, profiles from your own region are displayed on the homepage . These users are nearby and, who knows, might be open to a spontaneous meeting.

Contacting other fetis

There are various ways to get in touch with other members on Fetisch.de:

• Message: Write to other members privately. As a standard member, you can write to up to 10 people every day.
• Messenger / Live Chat: If you are friends with another user, you can easily chat in Messenger.
• Forum: The forum serves both the exchange and the making of new fetish contacts. Topics such as BDSM, body fetishes and much more are discussed here.
• Spank: Similar to how you can poke people on other portals, at Fetisch.de you have the opportunity to “spank” someone. As a standard member you can give up to 3 spanks every day. Spanks you have received can be found in the “Spank List”.
• Video chat: Get in touch with other members via webcam and show yourself.

Alternatively, you can create a date ad to increase your chances of contacts and success. To do this, you select a category (“Kinky Date”, “Munch Buddy”, “Club Friends”, “BDSM Play Partner”, “BDSM/Fetish Family”, “ONS” or “Pro-Dom/me Session”), adds a heading and provides age, city, and time period information. Once the ad is online, other members have access to it and can contact you if they are interested.

With these diverse options, Fetisch.de offers a platform on which you can get to know other people with your special preferences in a safe and comfortable way.

Special features

Free BDSM group chat

The free BDSM chat for all members should be highlighted here.

Dirty talk can be a start. To do this, visit the free fetish chat . Open your own fetish rooms or visit existing chat rooms. Chat casually about your fetish or find fellow players near you.

In addition to the already mentioned options for finding a partner and making contact, the contact exchange offers a number of other useful features in its variety of functions.

The platform organizes photo competitions and has an events calendar . As a further highlight, the platform offers its own blog . Guest contributions are also possible there.

Photo competitions

People who want to live out their passion for photography have the opportunity to take part in the regular photo competitions . are held on varied topics such as “Late Roman Decadence” or “Doctor Games” in which members can choose their favorite picture.

Events and happenings

In the event calendar, users can create unique fetish events or take part in already planned events. There are no limits to your imagination: whether it's a party, game night, or BDSM event, there's something for every fetish lover. The filter function also makes it possible to search specifically for events in your own region.

Perimeter radar

FSK18 check

The platform continues to offer an FSK18 check for premium members. The member then has unrestricted access to images and videos, of course including those that are not suitable for minors.

All images and films are checked by support and divided into three main categories: FSK12, FSK16 and FSK18. In order to access content classified as FSK18, an FSK18 check is (reasonably) required. However, the FSK18 check can only be carried out with a premium or VIP membership.

So in order to view erotic images and sexual content, it is necessary to purchase premium access.

FET: The BDSM and fetish app for smartphones

With the new app “FET: Kinky BDSM Dating & Chat”, the operators of Fetisch have brought an exciting and dynamic application onto the market. It is available both in the Apple Store and for Android in the Google Play Store ( direct to the app ).

What is particularly noteworthy is that the app contains all the functions of the web version, which is relatively rare and extremely remarkable. Whether reading the news, writing emails, discussing in the forum or “spanking” other members – there are no limits to your cell phone flirting activities.

With over 500,000 downloads, the app received an average rating of 4.0 out of 5.0 stars . This is a very good value for a dating app.

Activity of members and prospects of success

The contact exchange Fetisch.de makes a very serious impression and offers an active platform for fans of fetish & BDSM. Fetisch.de is fun even if you don't have a particular fetish or are simply curious about this scene and subculture.

So it’s not just “hardcore” members who are registered. Rather, the membership structure is more heterogeneous and broader than related BDSM portals.

A significant proportion of the members on Fetisch.de are actively looking for new acquaintances . Profile views and messages were numerous in our tests despite the lack of a profile picture.

Finding a partner for exceptional dates and adventures is promising as inactive profiles are minimized. Harassing people can be blocked and the support team can be contacted if rules are broken.

The quality and authenticity of the profiles as well as respectful communication in the broadest sense set the platform apart from others. Different sexual preferences are accepted and sharing experiences in the forum is warm. Members do not hide their preferences; they openly communicate what they are looking for.

A small downside are members who have financial interests and do not initially communicate this openly.

Free services:

• Registration
• Create profile
• Upload photos and videos (max. 5)
• own pinboard
• Spanking (up to 3)
• View recent profile visitors (up to 5)
• Create and manage favorites (max. 5)
• Send and receive messages (max. 10/day).
• Search function including video search
• Send and receive messages (max. 10/day).
• Join the group chat
• Read and create forum posts
• limited storage time of messages (7 days)
• Make entries in the event calendar

Paid Services (included in Premium Membership):

• Unlimited spanking
• Display of the last 50 profile visitors
• FSK18 check
• Watch Videos
• Photo search
• Send unlimited messages
• Send message with pictures
• Secret photo and video gallery
• Authenticity check
• Advanced statistics
• Describe pinboards
• Upload up to 15 videos/photos
• Radius search
• Photo competition
• “Invisible” function
• Up to 100 friends
• Up to 50 favorites

TOP:

• Specializing in fetish lovers
• Wide range of functions as a premium or VIP member
• FSK 18 function
• Own blog
• good group chat (free to use), live chat and video chat for premium members
• Points system to earn a free premium membership
• Cancellation possible at any time
• Suitable for transgender, non-binary people, transvestites and transsexuals
• Relatively cheap compared to other dating sites

FLOP:

• Limited functionality as a basic member
• high proportion of men
• some members have financial interests

Costs & Fees

Using the site as a basic member is completely free. This includes the basic use of the community and the range of functions of the basic membership is quite acceptable. For example, you can send up to 10 messages per day to other members.

A premium and VIP membership is then subject to a fee and is necessary for access to the XXX area (including FSK18 check) and for many useful additional functions. The following costs apply:

• 9.99 euros/month (12 month term)
• 11.97 euros/month (3 month term)

Note: All price information is subject to change and can be changed by the provider at any time.

Payment options:

• Direct debit
• Credit card
• Invoice (anonymous)
• Paysafecard

Contract and termination:

There is a subscription model with monthly recurring fees for Premium and VIP. The Fetisch.de subscription can be canceled up to 1 day before the membership expires.

To permanently delete the member account, simply click on the button in the profile settings.

Security, data protection and privacy

The provider undertakes to observe and comply with all statutory data protection regulations, in particular the Federal Data Protection Act (BDSG) and the Telemedia Act (TMG).

The data protection regulations are explained transparently in the general terms and conditions. Data protection and the protection of the privacy of its members is a high priority for this provider.

Voucher for Fetisch.de:

Unfortunately there is no Fetisch.de voucher available at the moment. As soon as we have current voucher codes, we will publish them here.

If you would like to be informed immediately about the arrival of new vouchers for this dating platform, then simply write us a short email with the subject “Voucher for Fetisch.de” and we will send you current voucher codes by email as soon as they become available.

Customer service and contact address:

For inquiries or to cancel your profile in writing, simply use the following contact:

Ideawise Limited
Managing Director: David Dreyer
Room 604, Alliance Building
133 Connaught Road, Central, Hong Kong

Email: kontakt[at]fetisch.de
Data protection officer: datenschutz[at]fetisch.de

Telephone number for basic and premium members: 09001 – 860130 – 999 (chargeable)
Telephone number for VIP members: 030 – 5091 2250 (free of charge)

free template from Aboalarm to cancel .

Further information about your valid right of withdrawal and contractual details for dating sites can be found on the website of the Hamburg Consumer Center . It also provides information about other pitfalls in the digital world for those looking for a partner to prevent financial risks.

Frequently asked questions (FAQs) about Fetisch.de:

Is Fetisch.de really free?

At Fetisch.de you can create a detailed profile and use a number of options to contact other members free of charge, permanently and without restrictions (see list above).

However, in order to exploit the full potential and improve the chances of success, a paid premium membership is recommended.

Who is on this fetish platform?

On Fetisch.de you can meet men and women of all ages who all share a special preference and in many cases would like to live it out with other members of the community. Interests vary greatly - from SM and bondage to unusual role plays.

Is there an app for your cell phone?

Yes, you can recently download the very well implemented mobile phone app for Apple iPhones and now also for Android smartphones from the respective app stores for quick access on the go

The apps have consistently good reviews (Google Play = 4.0/5.0 stars).

I don't have a fetish at all. Can I still register?

If you are fundamentally interested in the topic of fetish and are open to gaining new experiences, Fetisch.de could be a suitable option for you.

However, if you have decided to exclude all forms of fetish activities, a traditional casual dating platform like C-Date.de undoubtedly be the better decision for you.

Which fetishes are represented in the community?

You are welcome on the platform no matter what fetish you can imagine. These include, among other things, various body fetishes, BDSM and SM, various forms of fetish clothing, foot fetish , special preferences or toys as well as exhibitionism. However, paid services and any illegal activities are not permitted.

Frequently used search terms and typos

Feetish, fetish

Conclusion:

FETISCH.de, in its improved form and now also with a cool FET app, is our test winner in the area of ​​fetish/BDSM contacts.

The site is consistently geared towards the target group, but at the same time also offers newcomers to the scene or curious people outside the scene an exciting opportunity to enter the world of fetish contacts.

You can easily use FETISCH.de for free, because reading and answering emails (up to 10 per day) is free. If you get a taste for it and make more and more contacts, a premium membership is worth it due to the high range of functions and the FSK 18 approval.