Fetisch.de – BDSM contact exchange for alternative dating


Fetisch.de – Special contact exchange tested and compared

Overall impression: [Rating:90/100]

The contact exchange Fetisch.de is a platform for people with special inclinations and preferences. Sexual interests are also in the foreground here. Fetisch.de calls itself “The community for alternative dating” .

FETISCH.de - BDSM community and fetish contacts
FETISCH.de – BDSM community and fetish contacts

Contact platforms for BDSM and people with a fetish have been on the Internet for almost 10 years. So they are still relatively young compared to the general dating and sex exchanges. Accordingly, these portals are well visited and are enjoying increasing popularity. Clearly a broad need is being met here. Fetisch.de is also growing rapidly and already has more than 180,000 members.

Compared to an affair agency or similar sites, Fetisch.de is cost-effective. The paid premium access offers some functions and extras.

Fetisch.de recently went online in version 2.0 and now offers a lot of news for friends of latex, fetish & BDSM . The design and layout of the contact exchange is simple but chic and catchy. It's very easy to use and you can register within 5 minutes.

After the short registration you will receive an access code by email and can use it to activate your account. This is followed by filling out your own profile.

Fetisch.de is basically free with basic access. However, you can only use all functions without restrictions with a premium membership. This is preferable to a free membership due to its extensive functions and contact options.

There is also a free way to get a premium membership - Fetisch.de awards points for certain actions, such as writing messages, rating pictures, and points. You can collect a maximum of 30 points per day. For 1,500 points collected you receive a free, 14-day premium membership. This can then take over 50 days. So you have to consider whether the effort is worth it. This is definitely an option for those looking to save money.

The contact exchange offers a variety of functions, a video chat , organizes photo competitions and there is an events calendar . As a further highlight, the platform offers its own blog. Guest contributions are also possible there.

The platform continues to offer an FSK18 check for premium members. The member then has unrestricted access to images and videos, of course including those that are not suitable for minors.

The contact exchange Fetisch.de makes a very serious impression and offers an active platform for fans of fetish & BDSM. Fetisch.de is fun even if you don't have a particular fetish or are simply curious about this scene and subculture. So it’s not just “hardcore” members who are registered. Rather, the membership structure is more heterogeneous and broader than related BDSM portals.

Free services:

  • Registration
  • Create profile
  • Upload photos and videos (max. 5)
  • own pinboard
  • Spanking (up to 3)
  • View recent profile visitors (up to 5)
  • Create and manage favorites (max. 5)
  • Send and receive messages (max. 10/day).
  • Search function including video search
  • Send friend requests (Max. 50 friends)
  • limited storage time of messages (7 days)

Paid Services (included in Premium Membership):

  • Unlimited spanking
  • Display of the last 50 profile visitors
  • FSK18 check
  • Watch Videos
  • Photo search
  • Send unlimited messages
  • Send message with pictures
  • Secret photo and video gallery
  • Authenticity check
  • Advanced statistics
  • Describe pinboards
  • Upload up to 15 videos/photos
  • Radius search
  • Photo competition
  • Create events
  • “Invisible” function
  • Up to 100 friends
  • Up to 50 favorites


  • Specializing in fetish lovers
  • Large range of functions as a premium member
  • FSK 18 function
  • Own blog
  • good chat (can be used for free)
  • Points system to earn a free premium membership
  • Cancellation possible at any time
  • Suitable for transvestites and transsexuals
  • Relatively cheap compared to other dating sites


  • Limited functionality as a basic member
  • high proportion of men
  • some members have financial interests

Costs & Fees

Using the site as a basic member is completely free. This includes the basic use of the community and the range of functions of the basic membership is quite acceptable. For example, you can send up to 10 messages per day to other members.

A premium membership is then subject to a fee and is necessary for access to the XXX area (including FSK18 check) and for many useful additional functions. The following costs apply:

  • 9.99 euros/month (12 month term)
  • 12.75 euros/month (3 month term)
  • 14.99 euros/month (1 month term)

Security, data protection and privacy

The provider undertakes to observe and comply with all statutory data protection regulations, in particular the Federal Data Protection Act (BDSG) and the Telemedia Act (TMG). The data protection regulations are explained transparently in the general terms and conditions. Data protection and the protection of the privacy of its members is a high priority for this provider.


FETISCH.de has been our test winner in the area of ​​fetish/BDSM contacts since it was relaunched in winter 2011.
The site is consistently aimed at the target group, but at the same time also offers newcomers to the scene or curious people outside the scene an exciting opportunity to enter the world of fetish contacts. You can easily use FETISCH.de for free, because reading and answering emails (up to 10 per day) is free. If you get a taste for it and make more and more contacts, a premium membership is worth it due to the wide range of functions.

Overall impression [Rating:90/100]
Number of registered members [Rating:70/100]
over 100,000 members
Activity/authenticity of members [Rating:90/100]
sometimes financial interests
Member checking [Rating:100/100]
Women's quota [Rating:70/100]
m 38% : w 62%
Search filter [Rating:90/100]
Costs & Fees [Rating:80/100]
Premium: from EUR 9.99 / month
Features & Functionalities [Rating:100/100]
Online chat, blog, calendar, photo competition, videos
Usability & operation [Rating:90/100]
good design and usability, keep it simple principle
Free services [Rating:90/100]
Basic contact functions for free
Feedback members [Rating:90/100]

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Joachim D.https://www.dating-vergleich.com
Online editor, copywriter and publicist in the field of online dating since 2012. Passionate blogger for over 10 years with diverse interests and many years of expertise in the market for dating sites, dating apps, dating agencies and flirt chats through hundreds of product tests, expert interviews and intensive research over more than a decade .


  1. Good day!
    Short and sweet about Fetisch.de. If you search the internet for a test etc. you will quickly realize that this site is said to be the best in comparison. No, it's not like that, this platform is glossed over. I ordered full access for a year and then discovered that the majority of the profiles were old and no longer visited by users. FSK 18 check, it's not enough if you pay with a credit card, you then have to show a facial image and a code, plus the check costs around 10EUR once. The number of video chat people is incorrect. Conclusion: Price performance is not right at all.

  2. Nothing is free at all.
    The main function “Chat” is only possible with the FSK18 exam, but the FSK18 exam is only possible with a premium membership for just under 40 euros / 3 months. Conclusion: deceptive package

  3. 156 messages under 3 accounts as a man,
    tried all possible wordings, types of salutations, etc. with a photo.
    Result = 3 answers
    No reaction...either just lure offers or the girls are just there for fun,
    at least not the fun that it's about.
    Conclusion: You can forget it

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