There are many controversial opinions on the subject of escorts and a lot of myths and half-truths on the internet about what it means to be an escort model. You hear about it often, read about it again and again and find it difficult to get a proper picture of it.
Is a VIP escort model the same as an escort or a prostitute? What does the everyday work of a high-class escort lady look like? What can you earn from it? What risks and downsides are there?
How can I become a high class model myself? What requirements do I have to meet for this? How do I find a suitable escort agency?
In this article we try to get to the bottom of these questions and provide initial answers.
The dream of a luxury life as an escort model
Maybe you've ever thought about living luxurious life of a secret lover of VIPs and millionaires Accompanying wealthy gentlemen on their travels, staying in expensive hotels, no longer having to pay attention to the price tag when shopping and receiving exclusive gifts such as designer fashion or jewelry?
Photography by Garin Chadwick @garinchadwick, via Unsplash
As the muse of a rich entrepreneur, the money worries quickly come to an end. The cult film Pretty Woman has probably made one or two girls dream and think along these lines.
But with all of these advantages, you shouldn't just look through rose-colored glasses. Not every woman is suitable for this type of job; in addition to the necessary basic requirements, it also requires a lot of work and commitment.
The bottom line is that the relationship between an escort lady and a patron is also a business relationship for which performance is expected in return for generous remuneration. According to high-class escorts, this is primarily demanded in the form of an acting performance.
You shouldn't give in to the illusion that your chemistry with a customer is always right and that you find all conversations, trips and activities exciting, interesting and pleasant. In these cases, professionalism is required.
You sell the customer a good feeling, so to speak, and that sometimes requires certain acting talents - even if you don't feel like it, a smile, approval, reinforcement or affection can be required.
The better an escort lady manages to do this, the more successful she will be in this profession and the higher the monetary rewards are likely to be.
If you are clear about what is required of you and that you can and want to make this commitment, then life as a VIP escort can be a ticket to a world full of luxury and glamour.
You have the chance to immerse yourself in elite circles and their world of thought, get to know interesting and powerful people, have conversations that you would otherwise never have had and travel to places that you would otherwise only have seen on television.
At the same time, you can earn an income that you would never be able to achieve with normal salary as an employee.
The prerequisite for a successful and well-prepared career as a top class escort model is a competent and reliable partner. It's best to contact an established and reputable escort agency such as Save the Date Escorts.
This elite escort service with branches in Düsseldorf, Cologne, Dortmund, Frankfurt, Hamburg, Berlin, Koblenz, Bonn, Wiesbaden, as well as Amsterdam, Brussels, Vienna, Ibiza, Monaco, Switzerland and many other cities in Germany and Europe offers the best advice, Care and work opportunities.
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Insights into the life of an ex-escort
Paper is patient, as they say, and as an outsider when it comes to everyday escort life, to a certain extent I can only present you with gray theory.
That's why I would now like to let a former escort lady (not named, would like to remain anonymous) speak for a real, authentic first-hand insight:
”I worked as a high class escort for a few years when I was in my mid-twenties. […]
Today I am a grown woman with a family. […]
I had a thriving business in the middle of a major European metropolis and was earning between 10,000 and 20,000 euros per month. So around 240,000 per year maximum. Due to the high prices, you will only find a limited number of customers who can afford you.
It is also physically and mentally not possible to look after more than one customer per day (on average). Some girls only do 1 client per week just to make some money on the side.
Or they have one or two sugar daddies, which is basically the same thing. You make 2,000 – 4,000 euros per month, which is a very good additional income.
Most of us did both, working for an agency and at the same time on our own account, for example on sugar daddy websites with a different name and different photos.
This type of work works well. It's about business. It's about marketing, sales, cash flow, CRM and nothing else. Like any other business, you want to have good sales. So you don't just work when you're with a client.
The job itself is like an actor. The better you can act like you really care about your customers, the more money you will make. They will keep calling you to book you again.
Many customers have the habit of booking many different escorts. This way you can discuss their habits with colleagues. Kind of office gossip. […]
It's high class, so you can't just lie back and relax. You must actively act as if you genuinely care about the customer. So it can be quite tiring (smiling, laughing, hugging, cuddling,... it's about a complete girlfriend experience, also called GFE in the scene). […]
Once you've been in business for a while, create a blacklist and stop answering the phone for difficult customers. They only respond to the customers who are simple, clean and less demanding. […]”
I think that these descriptions provide a very good, neutral and authentic insight into the everyday work of a high-class escort . But feel free to judge for yourself.
Former luxury escort model and founder of Samantha
Samantha X gives us further exciting looks behind the scenes . In a conversation with Daily Mail Australia, the self-made businesswoman, who is now successful with her own agency, gave an insight into her "secret recruiting meetings" with her escort aspirants - and what it takes to become a first-class escort in the very first league.
Is there a certain type of woman?
She reveals about the typical women who apply to be included in her exclusive list of top escorts:
“There is no typical candidate, they are mostly working women who lead a completely normal life. They are mostly older than 30, sometimes with children to care for and little financial help from their biological fathers. Some are married and long for a secret sexy life. […]
Some are very rich and just want to do something exciting once. Some have partners who are fully aware of their fantasy. Still others are single and disillusioned with true love.[…]
There is no so-called clearly defined “type” of woman who dreams of becoming an escort model. I would guess that most women have thought about this at some point in their lives. […]
Professionally, I have had police officers, tax clerks, teachers, psychologists, interior designers, television personalities, and many more jobs…”
What criteria (dis)qualify you for a career as a high-class escort?
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Regarding her admission criteria, Samantha explains:
”I don’t accept every woman who applies. I will not take anyone who is rude, arrogant, does this just for the money and is younger than 25 years old.[…]
The type of women I look for must radiate warmth, kindness and compassion. This is far more important than your body measurements or a particularly striking face.[…]
Women have to like men. You may be laughing, but it's amazing how many women I've met in this industry who can't stand men. You must enjoy the company of men otherwise you will hate your job, and if you hate your job you will not be good at it.[…]
Escorts have to follow rules - three misses and you're out. It's really important that women who work for me understand the rules and standards we have. […]
We also expect quick responses to inquiries, an immaculate wardrobe and obviously impeccable and distinguished behavior towards the customer.”
Why do women choose this profession?
Samantha sees the following reasons in particular:
”The women who come to me are usually tired of a normal relationship because they have been repeatedly disappointed by men in the real world. […]
They're tired of having sex for free and ending up feeling used. They are tired of men texting them at 10 p.m. just because they are looking for a quick, spontaneous number.[…]
Or they are driven by curiosity and a sense of adventure, want to explore this mysterious industry and feel like they have to cross something off their list.[…]
I assure these women that once they start working as an escort, they will rarely have sex without being paid handsomely for it. They become more aware of their limitations and gain a form of empowerment and control they have never felt before.[…]
In the years I've had my agency, only one woman felt it wasn't for her. 99 percent wish they had done it sooner and had never been treated so well by a gentleman.[…]”
The complete interview as well as answers to the questions “Why do men book a high class escort lady?” and “How much can you earn as an escort?” provides Samantha X in this post from Mail Online – femail .
Objective requirements for a successful career as a luxury escort?
In the interview with Samantha X we were already able to identify a few success criteria. But that was only part of the conditions that are generally imposed on escort ladies for admission to the first league.
Escort Ladies differs from a traditional prostitute in that she is a real companion who offers emotional intimacy, mental stimulation and psychological support. She is not just a sex object.
A top class escort model creates a very deep and special connection with her gentleman clients, sugar daddies and patrons rather than just providing a physical service. She meets fewer men at a higher level to maintain her exclusivity and freshness.
At the upper end of the industry there are also some (entry) conditions . If you take a cross-section of the requirement profiles of various high-class agencies, the following list of criteria could be the common denominator:
1. Appearance
First and foremost, it is obviously an industry based on image, similar to the modeling industry. You should be young, classically beautiful, with an attractive complexion and pleasant facial features.
In order to meet the preferences and expectations of the largest possible customer base, you should also avoid overly specific features such as eye-catching tattoos and unusual hairstyles. Your base look should be mainstream if possible.
While conservative cosmetic surgery can be helpful in some areas, too much surgical work can ruin your appearance. Natural beauty is preferable.
2. Body type & lifestyle
While there are no specific minimum measurements for height, bust, waist, etc., in general you should be in very good physical shape.
It's not so important whether you have a wasp waist, the figure of a supermodel, the androgynous stature of a ballerina or even a few feminine curves. In any case, you should be exceptionally fit and in good shape.
Realize that you are working at an elite level – like a top model, a top athlete or an accomplished actress. In order to stay at the top, you also have to invest time and sweat in your fitness and your figure.
A balanced diet, a vital and disciplined lifestyle and lots of training are mandatory prerequisites for a place in the sun in the midst of the highly competitive industry.
On the other hand, exaggerated or poorly performed cosmetic surgeries, such as disproportionate breasts, injected pouty lips, frozen facial features, or obvious scars from surgery are not acceptable.
3. Education
There are two different types of education. While traditional schooling is generally viewed by the elite as more middle-class, it is still a standard requirement. It is expected that one is able to recognize and follow conventions and can easily participate in conversations that require a certain level of general knowledge.
And then we have cultural education as well as a certain sophistication and a pinch of experience - music, opera, theater, art, travel, sophisticated small talk, intercultural competence, sophistication, style and etiquette.
No university in the world can teach the soul to feel the passion and energy that a work by Mozart or Beethoven evokes. And no university can teach you to feel the inspiration that Botticelli's works are capable of arousing.
This requires one's own, interested and attentive examination of the fine arts and things of a cultivated life.
Photography by Marvin Meyer @marvelous, via Unsplash
4. Education and personality
While these two attributes don't always go hand in hand, they should be equally pronounced in a luxury escort. You should have had a “normal” (ie, general, healthy) upbringing that was free from drug or alcohol-related problems, abuse, poverty, crime, neglect, etc.
Here I would like to emphasize that of course it doesn't have to be your fault or anyone else's if this wasn't the case. Despite a problematic background, wonderful people can of course develop from them. With regard to suitability as a high-class escort, however, it can be an exclusion criterion, as the sometimes very high expectations of demanding customers regarding the behavior of their companions cannot be met or can only be met to a limited extent.
A positive attitude and a carefree, tolerant and curious nature as a result of protection, care and support is most successful in the world of courtesans. You are expected to maintain a friendly, gracious and dignified appearance even when you are having a difficult moment.
In addition, a high-class model must be able to fit into new surroundings almost effortlessly and have an open nature in order to easily come into contact with new people.
Empathy and compassion for other people are therefore a must in order to be able to adapt flexibly to new people and create the necessary emotional connection. Intelligence is obviously clearly an advantage.
5. Reliability, discretion and integrity
If you are unable to do what you say you will do, be where you say you will be, and deliver what you say you will do, then you are unsuitable to be an elite escort.
Disrespecting or even wasting other people's time is extremely unprofessional. If you expect to be considered elite, speed, commitment and professionalism are basic requirements.
Since you may also come into contact with celebrities or people who are in the public eye, have wives or families who know nothing about the escort service , or have a certain professional image to maintain, handling private information with the utmost sensitivity is necessary . Confidentiality and discretion are the top priority in this industry.
6. Talents & Skills
It's not enough for the top echelon to just have great looks, all that knowledge and personality, without any real talents or special skills. You would just be a beautiful, living decoration.
This could be, for example, long-term practice of a hobby or sport, such as equestrian sports, skiing, tennis, musical instruments, singing, dancing talents, a sense of design or decoration, business skills, cooking, specialist knowledge in a certain area, in-depth knowledge of wines , spirits or other luxury goods or luxury foods, etc.
Solid general knowledge and some special talents are a perfect mix. If you don't feel sufficiently well prepared in this regard, then you can remedy this point. Research strengths, interests and preferences and build on them. Hobbies and skills can be further developed and cultivated.
7. Style, sophistication and grace
This is an important point, especially in today's high society climate. Vulgar, trashy or clumsy behavior is unacceptable, including when it comes to clothing style.
The VIP escort wears a very reserved, classic and elegant style - and she wears it well. Your goal should be not to be too noticeable.
Neutral and tastefully combined colors are preferred. For example, fitted pencil skirts that are worn below the knee, appropriate elegant footwear, jackets that fit tightly around the waist and scarves to protect your cleavage from prying eyes are suitable.
She adequately protects herself from “meat inspection” and presents herself in a tasteful, appropriate manner. Instead of wearing the latest trends or flashy, colorful outfits, she wears what fits her client's mostly elegant style. Large, eye-catching jewelry, heavy perfume, excessive make-up and very low-cut tops are not found on a real high-class escort model.
Escort models in an interview – first-hand reports
1 day with an escort: just expensive sex?
“Why do you pay several thousand euros for a date? And what exactly does an escort do? To find out, I meet Luisa, who works as an escort and takes me with her for a day." ( tomatolix , YouTube)
Escort: This is how a sex date works
Lenia is an escort and has sex for money. She is 26 and has been doing this for two years. Whether as a high-class companion for a fancy dinner, a girlfriend replacement on a business trip or for a hot night in the hotel room: Lenia fulfills her customers' sexual fantasies at every paid meeting.
Aminata accompanies her in Berlin and wants to know what is the difference between prostitution and escorting? And of course: How does a date like this work?
Interview with Escort Luisa from “Temporary Beloved”
“WHEW! Today I have such an exciting interview with an even more exciting woman for you! Luisa from “Beloved on Time” is an escort - she works as a Se ✖️ worker - and today she gives you an insight into her work in the first part of our interview. You asked me an incredible number of questions beforehand that you had for Luisa, and we tried to answer them all.” ( Kathrin Ismaier , YouTube)
Why Juni works as an escort alongside her studies I ASK AN ESCORT
uni earns her money as an escort alongside her studies. A typical part-time job was too boring for her. She selects her clientele carefully. We asked June your questions!
A few final words…
It may be that this list seems very long to you and the hurdle on the way to becoming a real VIP escort model seems insurmountable.
What is true is that the expectations and conditions are high. But the good news is: you can influence a lot of things yourself to significantly increase your chances.
If you didn't have a privileged upbringing, there are numerous courses and further training courses or so-called etiquette classes with which you can work hard on yourself.
When it comes to style, taste and appearance, you can go to an image consultant or styling coach. Hair and make-up can also be done professionally. Many visual make-up artists also offer courses and workshops. And the cheaper alternative can be brought into your own living room via YouTube and Co. as video tutorials.
To develop or refine special skills, courses and club memberships in horse riding, tennis, skiing, swimming, snorkeling or diving are available. Study art and classical music in detail for a while, learn a new language, try out a new instrument.
As you can see, there are lots of ways and options to specifically invest in yourself. And if you are not sure where you currently stand, what your current opportunities are or what you should specifically work on, then it is worth contacting an escort agency you trust without obligation. Reputable agencies will be happy to give you advice.
