Looking for a restaurant recommendation? Need a hotel room at the last minute? Inspiration and suggestions for health, nutrition and fitness? Rest assured, there's a smartphone app for that. And not just one, but dozens or even hundreds.
No matter what area of our lives it is, we trust our cell phones more and more as a close, technical confidant that solves problems and gives us advice and recommendations.
This of course also applies to the topic of eroticism and there are a number of exciting applications to spice up our sex life.
I have picked out 6 very special apps from this area.
Pillow
Sometimes when it comes to building intimacy there is a problem and we just can't do it fast enough. We crave the desire for sex, but can't really get going with our partner.
I think we can agree that the careful development of intimacy and a romantic mood play an important role in relationships and also in affairs or one-night stands.
On the other hand, sometimes we just want things to be quicker, more passionate and more intense and we don't want to spend too much time on "tedious" banter.
This is where the “Pillow” app comes into play – as a kind of “magic button” that significantly speeds things up with audio, speech and communication exercises.
These exercises were developed in collaboration with therapists, coaches and tantra teachers and aim to establish intimacy, communication as well as pleasure and desire quickly and with force.
The 30-day program on offer, for example, promises to gain more trust and appreciation in a playful way, which should ultimately lead to increased desire and more pleasure in the bedroom.
Especially for couples who want to give their relationship a new, exciting depth, rekindle the spark after many years of marriage, or want to get closer to each other again in the phase after the birth and the first years of a child.
iKamasutra Lite
Who doesn't know it, the Bible of love and sexuality. iKamasutra packs the comprehensive teachings for a perfect sex life in your pocket.
This means you always have instructions for more than a hundred different sex positions - divided into nine categories - at your fingertips. By the way, each of them was beautifully and clearly visually designed and illustrated.
You can even track and record your own progress from complete beginner to Kama Sutra Grand Master by checking off each practice-tested exercise. You can also save your favorite positions in a favorites list.
You can also create a to-do list with this app. And if you can't decide, simply shaking your phone will randomly select your next position.
Kindu
Fifty Shades of Gray books and films have touched a nerve in many of us. There is no other explanation for their popularity.
It can also be assumed that you have inspired numerous people to be more permissive and more open about their secret fantasies.
The good news is that we don't have to wait for the next installment in this film series to overcome our shyness and inhibitions.
Kindu provides relief and helps us to live out and share our sexual interests, preferences and fantasies more fully.
Simply log into this app with your partner and browse through thousands of intimate activities - each for their own. If you like something, express your interest with a swipe. The partner does the same thing.
If there is a match in an activity, this becomes visible to both participants and you find out what it is. If there is no agreement, your partner will never find out about your “little, twisted secret.”
The alternative app “UnderCovers” works in a similar way.
Sex drive
You can think of this app as the technological equivalent of Viagra. She uses binaural (i.e. appealing to both ears at the same time) tones and acoustic signals to stimulate the erotic zones in the brain and body.
Two constant tones played at slightly different frequencies in both ears while wearing headphones are said to mimic the brain waves that trigger the state of excitement in us.
I cannot fully judge whether this works in practice. So it's up to you to just put it to the test.
OhMiBod
I came across this term from time to time on the Internet and at the time I could never really imagine what it meant.
Behind it lies one of the most technically sophisticated products on the battery-powered satisfaction market.
The company behind the OhMiBod first distinguished itself by developing the original iPod vibrator, which could be connected to the Apple music device and vibrate rhythmically to the music.
The WiFi-enabled OhMiBod is a type of remote control that connects the smartphone to a vibrator.
Due to the fact that the operator of the trigger can be any distance away from the vibrator, this app is particularly suitable for long-distance relationships and if you want to give pleasure to another person from a distance.
It is also often used together with Skype or other video messaging services and can provide exciting, exciting and satisfying moments.
A fun additional function is the so-called Oh-Dometer, which makes it possible to record every orgasm and thus display it in a time overview.
BangFit
Did you know that 30 minutes of sex burns about the same number of calories as 5 kilometers on a bike? In other words, you burn two well-filled rolls.
The perhaps not so serious but very entertaining app BangFit skillfully combines the two worlds of sex and fitness. So we’re talking about “Sexercise ,” if I may use that anglicism at this point. So you can expect pelvic exercises of a slightly different kind. The many repetitions are a lot more fun...
By the way, the clever minds at PornHub are behind this app.
So, that was my little Sex Up Your Life app list for now. I hope there were some exciting suggestions for you. Even if not all of these apps are already available in German, you can still have fun with them even if you have a rudimentary knowledge of English.
But what if you don't currently have a partner with whom you can test and use these apps extensively?
Don’t worry, that’s what the internet is for after all. Sex contacts and sex meetings are made possible by a variety of portals, communities, online chats and platforms. It's not always easy to keep track of things and separate the wheat from the chaff.
It is often only afterwards - i.e. when you use a platform - that you realize whether it actually delivers what it promises. And it can be very annoying if you have put a lot of money on the table right from the start or have even taken out a long-term subscription that will bill you between 30 and 50 euros per month for the next few months.
The lowest financial risk is certainly offered by sex contacts and sex meetings without registration or payment. There are many myths about whether these free sex exchanges
This question was examined in detail at date-magazin.com There you will find out whether sex without registration is just a myth or not.
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