Have you ever wondered how rich people look for and find their true love? Do dating patterns change just because someone has millions in their account? And can you use this knowledge to make yourself a millionaire?
Let's get to the bottom of these questions. We get help from Samantha Daniels , a successful elite matchmaker who helps millionaires find true love.
The long-time dating expert and owner of the renowned dating agency Samanthas's Table has spent over 20 years as an elite matchmaker for the ultra-rich.
She only works with high-profile, successful people who like to date under the radar and don't have time to be on dating apps. Additionally, their customers prefer to have someone like them trustingly check the matches for them.
Samantha's clients have always included millionaires, “masters of the universe,” CEOs, hedge fund owners, entrepreneurs, law firm partners, investment bankers, and entertainment executives.
Over the past two decades, she has helped thousands find real love. Given their success rate, the question arises as to whether they perhaps have a sixth sense for knowing who suits whom. In any case, she really understood how a millionaire's mind works.
Many women asked the matchmaker why a millionaire would end up choosing a certain woman over another, especially when the other woman seemed more his type.
As the essence of her work, she tells us the 7 reasons why millionaires marry a certain person .
She decodes for us the factors that millionaires pay particular attention to when choosing a suitable partner.
Reason #1: Timing is everything
For millionaires, sometimes walking down the aisle can actually be attributed to timing. Samantha has seen many cases in her matchmaking business where millionaires “the unexpected woman” because the time was right and nothing more.
Maybe he's the only unmarried board member at his company, or the last of his friends without a tie, or maybe the last single in his group of bachelor friends.
Any time a triggering event like this occurs, a millionaire bachelor can very quickly decide to become a married man.
Reason #2: A good mother for his heirs
Millionaires see their children as the next CEOs of their companies and therefore choose very carefully who will be the mother of their future heirs.
Many millionaires have confided that even if they find a woman excellent in every other way and are even in love with that woman, they choose against her on one important knockout criterion.
If they don't see the woman as a good mother with a strong moral compass, they ultimately won't marry her.
Reason #3: The woman fits into his life
There are many millionaires who married women who simply fit; she was the pot to his lid, the yin to his yang.
Some wealthy men expressed that because their lives are so busy and they have so many responsibilities, they ultimately want to marry someone who has a similar lifestyle; i.e. also works a lot, grew up in a similar way, moves in the same social circles and has the same ideas about life in general, so things just fit together well.
Reason #4: Support and understanding
The woman of many successful singles' dreams is supportive and understanding. Many millionaire men are attracted to women who understand their lifestyle and pursuits very well and are willing to put his interests first when necessary.
Many women think that playing hardball is the best way to land a wealthy man. However, what Samantha has often seen is just the opposite. In reality, rich men
They tend to end up quickly separating from “difficult” women or running away.
Reason #5: Urgent desire to have children
He decides that he is ready to have children immediately.
Many very wealthy men like the freedom of dating, but they still have old-fashioned values when it comes to raising children and family. If a millionaire wakes up one morning and feels the itch “I want a child now,” the woman who has his attention at that moment will most likely be the one he marries.
Reason #6: Well organized
The ideal woman from the perspective of many millionaires is very organized.
Many very wealthy men like to marry a woman who is organized, can juggle many things at once, and can “run the house.” This may sound cavemanlike, but many successful men openly admit that they ultimately want to marry a woman who can effortlessly take care of household and family affairs.
That doesn't mean you can't be a boss babe, but you also need to be able to handle this part of your life as a family unit.
Reason #7: She brings the whole package
The woman is simply the whole package.
Millionaires are high achievers by nature, so naturally they want to marry a woman they see as the crème de la crème, who they believe has everything. Having it all is different for every wealthy man, but they all want to be with someone they see as beautiful and sexy, smart, family-oriented, understanding and kind.
About Elite Matchmaker Samantha Daniels
Samantha Daniels, the owner of the dating service Samantha's Table , has been a professional matchmaker and dating and relationship expert for almost 20 years and revealed these 7 reasons for choosing in an interview with Business Insider .
She has appeared as a dating expert on screen and in print media, from The Today Show and Good Morning America to The New York Times and The Wall Street Journal. She was also the creator/producer of the NBC TV show Miss Match and the author of the book Matchbook: The Diary of a Modern-Day Matchmaker .
