Tonight it's finally here! Party time! Swing time! You and your partner are about visit a swingers club for the first time . You have been looking forward to this evening for a long time, imagining various fantasies and thinking about how this evening could turn out.
Maybe you are very excited now? This is completely normal, because after all you are entering new territory and expanding your erotic horizons. Although you have usually prepared and informed yourself, the step into action is always something special and usually eagerly awaited.
Many newbies prepare for their first swingers' evening by exchanging ideas with experienced swingers in advance, getting an idea online in relevant forums or communities, or by contacting the operators of the club or couples' evening directly.
As a rule, these are passionate swingers themselves and will be happy to explain the process, rules and special features of the event to you. So don't be afraid to ask your questions and talk openly about the topic.
How do I choose the right outfit?
Focus on your own preferences
Clubwear , vinyl, leather, latex, fishnet shirts, miniskirts, sexy lingerie , suspenders, etc. The choice is large, and with it the confusion. After all, you want to experience a very special evening at your premiere. The right clothing plays a role that should not be underestimated.
It is also an occasion for you to explore and live out secret preferences and fetishes or inclinations that have not yet been fully explored. Dare to break the conventions of your everyday wardrobe.
The most important rule of thumb is to dress in a way that makes you feel good and allows you to move easily and comfortably.
It doesn't make sense that you look like a prom queen of the night but need a small crew for your sashes, veils and to catch you if you trip in your 5.5 inch heels.
Visual stimuli and erotic accents
Secondarily, you probably also want an outfit that is exciting and perhaps not too daring to add some excitement. It's always nice to feel other people's eyes on you, especially on such a exciting and erotic occasion.
We humans always initially react to visual stimuli . Choosing the right wardrobe plays a very important role. It's the same at swinger parties and swinger meetings.
With these tips you can get your time at the bar and flirting off to an exciting start.
Practical use for the playground
Do you want to wear clothes that will make you the center of attention during intense flirting and also on the playground? Then your outfit should be more functional. It's important that you consider whether you want to keep it on on the field (perhaps even with the idea of covering up certain problem areas) or whether you want to take it off.
If you want to keep it on, so-called ouvert lingerie is an option. The openings have the advantage that you can wear the outfit during lovemaking.
In principle, you can change your outfit at any time or change clothes to suit the occasion.
What types of clubwear are there?
Corsages & corsets
These garments create a slim waist and will definitely make your femininity shine.
Patent bodysuits and vinyl corsets in particular appear seductive and elegant to many people. Thanks to the unique feel, this lingerie is not only beautiful to look at, but the supple polyurethane material also ensures arousal.
Many women already have a tight-fitting bodice or corset in their lingerie repertoire as they are one of their preferred types of underwear.
Made of patent fabric , these lingerie become even more appealing as they fit around the chest and waist like a second skin and perfectly emphasize your figure.
They are available with lacing decorations, with a deep neckline or with a mesh look .
Patent suspender shirt with front zipper
a stunning striped design with both black and white color elements, this fabulous suspender shirt
Thanks to the practical zipper on the front, you can put on this elegant patent suspender shirt effortlessly. All that's missing are a few stockings, which you can easily attach with the robust metal clips.
Strapless overbust corsage made of patent, black
Show off your attractive curves in this lingerie, which is reinforced with flexible rods and has removable holders for stockings.
The exciting lacing in the back not only looks good, but also ensures that the corset adheres closely to the body and emphasizes the silhouette. The heart-shaped neckline above the front zipper is the highlight of the design and creates a cleavage that you'll want to eat.
Corsage set, black/red
This corsage conjures delicate lace flowers in a passionate red on your feminine curves, which form an impressive contrast against the black background.
The lightly padded underwired cups ensure a breathtaking cleavage, while shaping bones ensure a perfect fit. The front lacing is purely for decoration and the lingerie is closed with hooks in the back.
Suspender corsage, black
Delicate flowers bloom in an elegant corsage on a sophisticated black background, giving it a subtle beauty that almost makes you have to look twice to notice.
Everyone will be happy to do this, because the top emphasizes your feminine curves in an attractive way thanks to the strapless neckline and the integrated boning. The removable suspenders invite you to piquantly complete this outfit.
Patent corsage, black
This corsage hugs your body crisply, tightly and shapingly and allows your femininity to shine through. The patent corsage from Black Level has supportive boning that beautifully emphasizes your silhouette.
At the front, a row of hooks ensures a comfortable closure, while it lace ups at the back to perfectly fit your shape.
A lush cleavage and well-shaped hips are the result of this seductive lingerie.
Noir Handmade: Lace corsage, black
With the lace corsage in black from Noir Handmade you can breathe life into your inner goddess. The supple stretch lace nestles gently against the skin and offers you unparalleled comfort.
The stabilizing form rod in the middle at the front gives you breathtaking support. Your natural silhouette is elegantly emphasized, while the corsage gently cinches in the waist, creating a classic hourglass figure.
Black patent corset by Patrice Catanzaro Turbulence
Wearing this elegant black patent corset from Patrice Catanzaro is a brilliant idea. It is anything but simply designed and hugs the body tightly, shining like a mirror.
The metal boning and the traditional lacing on the back ensure a perfect fit. This also favors your cleavage, which is beautifully accentuated by the curved neckline and the velvet straps, which can be tied into a pretty halterneck.
There are also narrow straps that can be individually adjusted.
Sexy dresses
Whether it's a simple black one, something made of transparent fabric or wetlook style dresses. There are tight and loose dresses – there is something for every type.
Seductive, sexy dresses in particular are very popular at erotic parties. The sensible cuts, charming insights and delicate patterns make these garments something extraordinary.
Manufacturers focus primarily on tight cuts, deep necklines, transparent inserts or exciting lacing - everything that looks attractive and emphasizes your feminine figure.
Different styles are available. Ask yourself the following questions:
- How daring can it be?
- How much skin do you want to show?
- Which parts of the body should the focus be on?
You have the freedom to choose between mini dresses that highlight the bottom with a tight wet look or those made of gently falling tulle for a flowing look over the body.
You can also decide whether you want your breasts to be presented with transparent materials or whether they would prefer to be covered with opaque wetlook.
Extravagant and provocative lingerie
Depending on your taste, they can conceal your problem areas or specifically emphasize certain areas of the body. Lingerie sets that give you a sexy look are particularly popular These are often combined with matching stockings and high heels .
When it comes to extravagant lingerie, exciting cuts, interesting materials or unconventional patterns are an absolute must! No matter whether it's a bodysuit, lingerie set, suspender corsage or babydoll.
Mesh dresses
emphasize erotic play through transparency Some areas are veiled and opaque, while others allow your skin to shine through, adding a sensual touch.
Especially at hot sex parties, you will be perfectly dressed with fishnet dresses and will attract many curious looks.
The preferred materials include fine lace, flowing chiffon or transparent tulle. Seductive cut-outs are also popular to give sexy fishnet dresses that certain extra something.
You can also choose between comfortable shoulder straps or underwired cups.
Fetish outfits – vinyl, latex, leather and wetlook
Now it gets a little more specific, but depending on the type of event/club, a fetish outfit be the right choice. Popular materials for people with a fetish are patent, latex, leather and wetlooks.
A breathtaking piece of lingerie made of shiny fabric that elegantly highlights the body and is extremely comfortable at the same time - this is a patent body . With exciting details such as seductive lacing, deep necklines, sensual colors and integrated mesh highlights, the patent body becomes a sexy eye-catcher that perfectly emphasizes the figure.
Corsages made of vinyl, latex or leather are also very popular because they can particularly emphasize the hips and waist and can be perfectly combined with beautiful trousers or a thong.
Some vinyl corsages even have suspenders integrated so you can wear matching fishnet stockings.
For lovers of vinyl fetishism, the vinyl body or the corsage harmonize perfectly with masks made of the same material as well as lacquered boots or gloves with mesh inserts. But even in combination with sexy high heels, this lingerie with a neckline and lace-up details cuts a stunning figure.
The silhouette appears almost flawless thanks to a corset, as the breasts, waist and hips are equally emphasized. Lacquer consists mainly of polyurethane and contains only a small amount of elastane. Thanks to this material, a body, a corset or a corset fits particularly tightly to the body - this means the female form is optimally showcased and femininity is skilfully emphasized.
Wetlook outfits are usually tight fitting, have a shiny look and radiate pure eroticism. The wetlook fabric clings seductively to your curves and elegantly caresses the female silhouette with its shiny appearance.
In addition, nipples and other special features such as piercings are clearly visible under the wetlook material.
Fetish outfits either cover the entire body from the shoulders to the ankles in a sensual material or they are stylishly and erotically combined with other materials. Particularly popular here are transparent tulle that flows smoothly over your curves, or delicate lace that wraps elegantly and femininely around your body.
This contrast creates a particularly elegant overall appearance and makes your outfit even more exciting.
Patrice Catanzaro Blizzard: PVC top, black
The sight of your seductive curves in this shiny top by Patrice Catanzaro is simple and deeply touching. The sinfully sexy curves are tightly wrapped and emphasized by the patent material, which creates an attractive waist cincher look .
In addition, the deep neckline and inviting front zipper ensure that your admirers simply can't get enough of you.
Latex dress
This latex version of a mini dress is the ideal choice for fashion enthusiasts who like a certain something. With a simple and tight-fitting design, it perfectly emphasizes your figure.
The narrow straps give the dress an elegant touch , while the wide, flared skirt looks light and airy.
Experience the exciting feeling of latex on your skin and ensure that every other black mini dress is provocatively overshadowed in comparison with this shiny outfit.
Latex ouvert suspender shirt, black
An undisguised openness dressed in latex! Ladies who appreciate this material and enjoy suspender stockings should definitely own this. The underwire and an adjustable halter neck perfectly accentuate the bust, while the latex material with a thickness of 0.4 mm gently caresses your body up to the hips.
The flowing cut elegantly flows into four suspender straps to which metal clips are attached. The bottom remains uncovered.
Latex pants with zipper, black
Those who have a penchant for the fascinating material latex prefer not to take it off at all during their erotic adventures.
Luckily, thanks to creations like these panties, n't even necessary. A long zipper extends from the front pubic area through the crotch to over the bottom, allowing generous access to the wearer's highly erogenous zone.
We recommend combining a bustier, gloves or corsage made of latex.
Long-sleeved bodysuit with zip made of latex
This shiny long sleeve bodysuit is an absolutely essential piece of clothing for people who like latex or want to try it.
It features a zipper that can be worn either front or back. There is also another zipper in the crotch area.
This outfit perfectly emphasizes the female curves and makes them stand out.
Purple latex dress
No matter whether it is a small or large size - you will always make a convincing impression mini dress in purple color made of exciting shiny latex
Made without sleeves, the tight-fitting design of the short dress presents your feminine curves to eat and makes you a desirable temptation.
Depending on your mood, this extremely hot dress can be combined either with high shoes and a chic coat or with sexy over-the-knees and a cool jacket.
Black latex waist garter belt
A fascinating phenomenon in the fetish world is the attraction of shiny latex on exposed skin. This material exerts an irresistible fascination for both the wearer and the viewer.
In this case, it has been incorporated into the design of a towering garter belt that skims the entire waist and features four metal clips to secure garter stockings.
The bottom remains open and accessible to any kind of touch.
accessories
The little details often make the difference!
High heels , stockings , a garter belt , jewelry , necklaces , fascinators or masks are popular accessories to perfectly round off a club outfit.
Online shops for sexy lingerie – How to make the right choice
It may be that you have already searched online for a suitable outfit shops for sexy lingerie , lingerie and clubwear
What makes matters worse is that in most of the pictures you only see super slim models with firm DD breasts, which makes you feel a little insecure. That's no wonder, because very few of us live up to this ideal, and we don't have to.
The fact is that the breadth of what is available on the Internet now offers suitable sexy outfits for everyone For example, if you are a bit chubby or have feminine curves, then there are numerous shops and providers that have focused precisely on this target group.
You can find swinger outfits and club lingerie in XXL, Sineros or EUFORY .
Ouvert lingerie, catsuits, thongs, bodies & corsets on Sineros:
At the lingerie brand Coquette, the name says it all. The designer pieces come with a tasteful elegance and allow the seductive power of the female curves to fully develop.
With sexy lingerie it quickly becomes clear where the attention should be directed.
Allure lingerie offers a wide range of seductive, sensual and provocative lingerie. Collections made of high-quality artificial leather, in wet look and patent as well as with sophisticated accessories.
The offer for men includes open-hearted pants, sharp shirts and wicked bodies.
The young lingerie label Passion is always close to the pulse of the fashion market and creates high-quality lingerie with seductive and sophisticated lingerie ideas to specifically highlight the seductive and tempting side of the female body.
Net is particularly popular with fashion designers as the material of choice. This is of course also reflected in the current collection.
The lingerie label Dreamgirl is the epitome of the American dream of seductive, attractive and confident women. Even the renowned men's magazine Playboy often uses Dreamgirl's erotic outfits.
Dreamgirl's creations playfully combine Hollywood glamor with wicked Moulin Rouge style .
The fashion designers clearly show that taboo does not have to mean low-class. Tulle, net, Venetian lace, oriental velvet or French satin silk wrap the female curves in tingling eroticism and turn every woman into a playmate.
The focus of the Spanish brand Bracli is the classic pearl thong . The Iberian luxury brand has been providing women with erotic lingerie that has that certain stimulating something since the mid-1990s.
When producing its lingerie, Bracli only uses high-quality materials and processes the finest French lace and artificial pearls made from natural mother-of-pearl essence from the island of Mallorca to create tingling, erotic lingerie.
The constantly growing range mainly includes panties, bodysuits, babydolls, bras and even pearl thongs for men.
With Darque, the Canadian designer label Coquette presents its dark side. Mini dresses, chemises, stockings, corsages and catsuits for all fetish friends and lovers of patent and leather.
When it comes to their preferred choice of materials, the designers focus primarily on shiny wet look, romantic playful lace and fine mesh and thus create mysterious, wonderfully wicked-looking dark lingerie.
What outfits do other swingers choose?
While you would probably need a crystal ball or oracle to predict in detail what will be worn by whom at a swingers meeting or club, there are a few basic tendencies and preferences depending on the type and level of experience. I would like to briefly summarize these for you:
The newbie
Newcomers often wear more conservative clothing because it is their first experience of this kind, they are rather cautious and they lack experience. You can recognize them because they dress relatively normally. Kind of like what you might expect if they went to a traditional evening event.
Newbies can also be recognized relatively reliably by the fact that they are wearing jeans. There is a kind of unwritten rule that blue jeans are a “no-go” on such occasions.
Such clothing choices can quickly send out the wrong signal, e.g. “I’m new here, don’t talk to me . That would significantly reduce the chances of a passionate evening full of lust and sensuality.
Of course, at the other end of the spectrum, there are exceptions to this rule. Some newcomers are real daredevils. They have very clear ideas about what they want from the evening and the club visit and don't hesitate to show it - not least with their clothing.
The occasional swinger
visitors to swinger events . They wear their clothes loosely and completely at ease because they have already had a few experiences and are now fully involved in the scene. You can quickly see that they have found their clothing style and feel comfortable in it.
A woman wearing a short miniskirt, fishnet suspenders and stilettos shows the other visitors quite clearly what she is up for that evening. Swingers with some experience like to dress in a particularly provocative and sexy way and know the signals they send out.
They even play with it and move confidently towards other visitors of the evening and interact openly in the club. They don't beat around the bush too long either. If you feel like being in someone else's skin , you will show it to the outside world and communicate it.
If you're just making a quick visit or looking out for old acquaintances, you'll notice this too. In this case they are much more reserved, including in their clothing. Many casual swingers meet at irregular intervals to swap partners . It is not uncommon for them to have regular couples with whom they arrange to meet for such evenings.
The veteran
Very experienced, long-time and regular swingers usually dress in such a way that their current mood and intentions are clearly visible to other visitors. It's like an agreed dress code that works without words.
If a woman would like to let the “whore” out today, you will quickly notice. Your clothes then literally scream sex. They also have no problem wearing slightly more extravagant or extreme outfits.
If veterans don't feel like being in other people's skin, only want to get involved with old friends, friendly couples or don't want to get involved with other people at all, then you will be able to recognize this easily.
This type of swinger does not send any misleading or ambiguous signals.
Helpful tips for a suitable outfit
When choosing the most suitable outfit, simply imagine what you want to signal with your clothing and feel free to adapt to your personal mood. Trust your gut feeling.
Be as brave as you want to be. Let your imagination run wild, get suggestions and inspiration.
Sexy, skimpy and provocative outfits are certainly a good choice. Show skin as long as you feel comfortable with it. But maintain a level of excitement, this will make you more interesting to the other attendees at the party.
Skillful handling of problem areas
There are many different types of clubwear that you can use to specifically conceal your problem areas.
Tummy problem area: My personal advice is to choose dresses, suspender corsages or body stockings - but this also depends on your goals and the type of event.
Problem area legs: A plus-length dress or a body suit is ideal for covering up your legs and keeping you comfortable and comfortable all night long.
Highlight the chocolate side
Legs: To particularly emphasize your legs, you can cleverly put them in the spotlight with attractive stockings without halters and high heels.
Breasts: If you want to emphasize your chest area, a corsage or corset as well as lingerie with an attractive neckline . There are numerous options here. ouverted at the top . There seems to be little way to draw more attention to this area of the body.
Adapt outfit to type, occasion and theme
A good tip is also to adapt the outfit to the occasion and type of event.
Here is a small selection:
Theme evenings – Does the club/event have a special theme?
Events and shared evenings that follow a specific theme are very popular in the swinger scene and are organized at regular intervals by swinger clubs or meetings. It is not difficult to figure out what type of clothing to choose. After all, it is dictated to a certain extent.
Should sexual intercourse be the focus of this party? (For example at a special play party ), then it is crucial to choose a practical outfit that you can either take off quickly or simply keep on - depending on your personal taste. There are also events where getting to know each other and know each other play a central role. Most of the activities here take place at the bar and on the dance floor. For this type of party, the outfit can be a little more extravagant or unusual.
At theme evenings, depending on the theme, you can wear a costume, or only clothes made of patent leather and leather are permitted. Latex and fetish parties are also common.
Other mottos at swinger evenings are:
- White Party
- Pool party
- Club party
- CMNF Party (The acronym CMNF stands for “Clothed Man, Naked Woman” and describes a constellation in which men are clothed and women are naked. The attraction of a CMNF party is that the men can live out their penchant for voyeurism while the Women can enjoy their exhibitionism. Both sexes experience the power imbalance that results from this constellation.)
- Kinky Party (A kinky party is characterized by the fact that the guests wear unusual clothing and form an open-minded and tolerant audience. What all participants have in common is the joy of partying with permissive and open people. However, it should be made clear that A kinky party is not an orgy! It is allowed to kiss or get to know other guests better - but only if this is desired and everyone involved feels like it. Most visitors enjoy the relaxed atmosphere for dancing and having a good time in an unusual setting environment.)
If you get stuck, get inspiration from the internet or friends.
Meet n Greet
This is a meeting or a get-together where you can get to know each other. A neutral location such as a restaurant, bar or pub is often chosen for this purpose.
Of course, you can dress sexy and provocative here, but make sure to respect the general public and their sensibilities. Don't be too revealing if other guests are expected.
If the meeting takes place within a swingers club, you can of course show more skin. But here too it is important not to be too offensive. After all, you don't want to show everything right away when you get to know someone. You are sure to find a playful means for this type of occasion.
Swinger parties
The most common form of such parties are non-themed evenings in specially designed places such as clubs, oases, playgrounds, etc. Here the clothing can be more revealing and express what you are up to that evening.
Be braver and follow the “Dress to Impress” motto. Assume that the majority of guests will only be wearing underwear, lingerie or tight pants
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And one final tip for couples
This advice goes especially to the men out there: if your companion dresses hot and sexy for a swinger club visit, then you should do that too! Make sure your outfits are coordinated as a couple and support each other.
For most evenings without a specific theme, dark clothes, tight boxer shorts (also made of leather, latex or vinyl), a light shirt or shirt (e.g. fishnet shirt) are almost always suitable.
At theme evenings, however, it is always very well received if your costumes are related to each other or complement each other in a playful way.
So, have fun at your first swingers party and enjoy the evening!
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