Do you think you need a “different strategy” when dating pretty women as opposed to the average ones?
Estefano d'Elano from Dating Psychology gets countless questions every day from men who have recently met a woman who, to them, is VERY pretty. It's as if we instinctively assume that when we find a woman very pretty, we need to take a different approach or use a different technique.
The first thing you need to know is that the most beautiful women out there are used to being treated specifically because of their beauty...
But on the other hand, people tend to ignore their intelligence, talents or other non-physical characteristics. If you're an attractive guy, you may have experienced something like this.
The more attractive you are, the better people treat you... but it also discourages women from wanting to get to know you better. They think you deserve a “different approach” – and they don’t know what that approach is. This is simply human through and through.
Likewise, the more beautiful a woman is... or rather, the more beautiful she dresses up... the more difficult it is for other people to approach her and talk to her. Especially for men. You know how it is.
When you talk to a woman who has spent hours making herself sexy and beautiful, you probably also feel a different aura compared to all the other girls. It's like she's much STRONGER than the other women.
And it’s true – beauty GIVES her more power. More specifically, it gives her strength because men worship her. You give her YOUR power.
As an example:
- Instead of making her smile and laugh, they try to be polite to her... because they're afraid of accidentally offending her
- Instead of splitting the bill, they insist on paying for the entire date... because they think that will make her like them more
They drop whatever they're doing to "make her happy" - buying her gifts, doing her favors, listening to her complaining, etc.
These boys are hopelessly trapped because they want her woman she likes... and it makes her do the most pathetic, embarrassing, pointless things in her life.
Don't make this mistake!
Here's the biggest challenge: How do you tell a dancer, an actress, a top model... or other extremely beautiful women... that you are not intimidated by her and that you feel 100% comfortable around her?
How you feel comfortable with a pretty woman
One of the quickest and easiest ways to feel comfortable with a beautiful woman is to simply make fun of her. I'm serious. Tease her, fool around with her, play with her.
Make her laugh and try to challenge her...but never let her win. Here's why: Most of the time, when a beautiful woman talks to a man about her job or lifestyle, most men cringe. They suddenly feel small or unworthy - like they can't keep up with her.
That's why beautiful women always try to flaunt their beauty, wealth and status - it gives them a great opportunity to scare away the weaker, poorer, less confident men they meet. Only the self-confident men have the mentality and skills to deal with beautiful women.
And that's the kind of guy you want to become. Goofing around with a beautiful woman puts you in the right mindset. When you joke around with a pretty woman, you are essentially telling her that you are not intimidated by her beauty and that you will NOT give her power over you.
What extremely beautiful women really want from men
Now you might think, “Wait, why would a beautiful woman try to scare away the nicer men?” Does this mean she only wants bad boys? “
The answer: Not necessarily. Like most other things, it's not about who the guy is - it's about how she FEELS with the guy. And beautiful women who are used to having money, being popular, and having hundreds of admiring men only want ONE THING - and it's the one feeling they never feel.
It's the feeling of being CHALLENGED. Beautiful women are used to living a simple life and having everything they need at their fingertips. And when they meet a man who is comfortable with them, makes them laugh, and gives them a CHALLENGE, they can't help but want to overcome it... it's EXHIBITING for them.
Try it. The next time you're trying to get a pretty woman who's trying to be snooty to you, tell her something like, "Oh, I see. you are spoiled. And as soon as she gives you the horrified look, you say something like, “Too bad. You looked kind of nice too. “
Then she will try to accept the challenges by saying something like: "But I'm nice" And you can tease her further by saying: "Yeah, right" Try how it works? You're basically telling her, "Just because you're beautiful, rich, or successful, don't expect me to treat you better."
It immediately brings you to her own level, away from all the boring, submissive men she has met in her life. Will some of the beautiful women laugh at you, turn their backs on you, or ignore you?
Of course. But that's a good thing - at least you won't waste all your precious time on a woman who isn't worth it. It's better that the relationship ends now than much later!
How women feel about men who challenge them
Have you ever paid attention to how you feel when you see a real beautiful woman - a kind of goddess that you only see once a year. Think about how you stop whatever you're doing and stare at her.
Think about how your heart beats faster and you wish there was a way to get to know her better. Well, you know what - that's EXACTLY how a pretty woman feels when she meets a man who is confident, dominant, and funny... who challenges her in a way that no other guy does... and who isn't different from her can be “pushed around”.
Do you want to be that guy?
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