Flirting by phone or even letter is a thing of the past - today people are more likely to pick up their smartphone when they think about their flirting partner. But the risk of making mistakes with abbreviations or nonsense requests is great.
So that you don't get rejected in the future, here are some tips from discoTEL :
Meaningful and with a smiley: That shows interest
Especially with a smartphone flat rate, it is tempting to write your flirting partner a short message more often. But its content needs to be carefully considered. If you don't have anything to say at the moment, it's better to leave your smartphone behind - because hardly anything is as bad as a meaningless "Well?", which suggests that the person sending the SMS was probably bored. Abbreviations are also out of place.
Firstly, the other person may not even know what they mean, and secondly, they always seem as if they were written under stress. There should be enough time for spelling out words and perhaps a lightening smiley when flirting!
When choosing the smiley, you should make sure to use neutral emojis. A smiling face or, if you're braver, a little air kiss is suitable in flirt chats .
In a nutshell: avoid a flood of news
Less is more – this also applies to flirting via smartphone . On the one hand, this means that messages should be sent sparingly. No flirting partner likes to be inundated with messages when they haven't had a chance to respond.
The timing can also be crucial: If you know that your flirting partner is at work, you should wait until the evening to say “I’m thinking of you.” It's a good idea to ask how the day went - this shows interest and quickly leads to a conversation.
Make sure that you keep it short, at least at the beginning, and don't write novels. The choice of topic should not become too emotional at the beginning of a flirtation.
Your dispute with your employer, for example, has no place here. Last but not least: Read the message again and check the spelling and punctuation. This saves you the embarrassment of typos or grammatical errors.
