Life used to be difficult. Friendship or relationship? You had to make a decision, and often after a lot of drama and tears, if love didn't work out, the friendship was over.
Nowadays, many modern men and women make things a lot easier for themselves: friendship or relationship or neither? You can also meet in the middle. Tadaa, the Mingle was born, a word creation from the English terms “mixed” and “single”.
It has long since become a part of life in and outside of many big cities. Just a bit of cuddling or even sex without any further commitment or commitment to a relationship?
No problem for a mingle. It only becomes problematic if the situation is not completely clear to everyone affected: If one of the two partners assumes that they are already in a relationship, while the other doesn't want to know anything about it, the house blessing in the Mingle household can be quick hang pretty crooked.
Depending on what type of relationship you are, being in a mingle can be a lot more relaxed, as the typical stress of a “real” relationship doesn't arise so quickly in the mingle world: If Vanessa is hanging out with Marc, Sabine might have Fancy going to the cinema followed by a trip to the bedrooms.
Anyone who knows many of these so-called “friends with benefits” is guaranteed to never get bored in their bedroom, and the typical loneliness of a single person is guaranteed not to arise so quickly between so much love and sometimes bare skin.
If there is mutual agreement and tolerance, it is not a problem if today Susanne is lying on the side of the bed on which the charming Romeo brought breakfast in bed to Christina yesterday - and that is exactly the problem: if the fronts are not clarified and the If a love adventurer meets a classic single to whom “cuddling” perhaps meant a little more, stress is inevitable.
For singles with a corresponding disposition and inclination, being a mingle can be an interesting alternative these days - depending on the type, to bridge the gap until the next relationship or perhaps even permanently.
However, if you are more of a romantic type of person, are jealous and like to give someone your whole heart, then a more classic relationship might be the right thing for someone like that.
