Almost everyone knows what it feels like to be alone after a breakup. Some can accept the end of love after a few months, others are too attached to their ex-partner and want to win him or her back. These mistakes should be avoided.
1. Not respecting distance
If your partner separates and wants distance, you should definitely pursue this request. Anyone who runs after his or her ex will only make things worse. Because nobody likes it when they are harassed or even ambushed. An interval of at least seven weeks is necessary.
This means not writing any text messages or letters or making any calls during this time. It can happen that making things rare turns out to be a positive step. The absence can cause your old partner to start missing you.
2. Friendship instead of love
Anyone who lives separately from their partner and still has feelings for him or her should not get involved in a friendship. This only works when there are no longer any emotions involved. Otherwise, stay away! This will not rekindle love - on the contrary: a friendship blocks all passion in order to get the ex back .
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3. Blame and accusations
Many abandoned people are angry with their ex-partner and show their anger with accusations and blame. This is an absolute no-go. Nothing is more unattractive than a person who constantly nags. Resentful behavior and discussing the same problems over and over again only reinforces the ex-partner's decision to end the relationship.
As in the relationship, the ex will no longer feel comfortable in the presence of the other person. Accusations and blame seal the final end of the relationship.
4. Be a doormat
Those who have been abandoned must under no circumstances give their ex-partner the feeling that they are doing everything to get him or her back - even if they think exactly the same way. Statements like “I’ll do anything you want” are inappropriate.
Your ex will quickly lose respect for you and then the relationship can no longer be saved. A partnership can only be maintained with respect for the partner.
5. Jealousy scenes
It is also a mistake to make your ex-partner jealous with one or another chosen one. There are two reasons for this: Firstly, it gives the impression that you are long over the relationship. On the other hand, you hurt your old love with this behavior.
But be careful: Even if you manage to win your ex-partner back with scenes of jealousy, this is not a good start to the new relationship. The topic of jealousy harbors new potential for conflict.
Source: Consultant team [[ http://www.beraterteam.info/ex-zurueck ]]
